“The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives” – Esther Perel
Stop going round in circles in a relationship that isn’t working.
Relationship Support That Gets to the Heart of the Pattern
I work with individuals, couples and small groups who want practical, honest support with relationship problems, communication breakdown, conflict, distance, resentment, uncertainty and stuck patterns that keep repeating.
Whether you are trying to repair a relationship, understand your own part in a painful dynamic, make a difficult decision, or learn better relational skills, this work is designed to help you see what is happening more clearly, and begin responding differently.
What brings you here?
Some common problems I help with:
- We keep having the same argument.
- One of us shuts down and the other gets louder.
- I don’t know whether to stay or go.
- We love each other but we are hurting each other.
- There has been betrayal, distance or years of resentment.
- I feel like I am the only one trying.
- We need help communicating without everything turning into blame.
- I want to understand my own patterns before I make a big decision.
For Individuals
For people who need clarity, support and practical guidance around a relationship.
You may be trying to understand what has happened, decide whether to stay or leave, recover from a painful dynamic, or change how you show up in relationships.
Rates: 60-70euro/hr-90mins
For Couples
When you want to stop repeating the same painful patterns and learn how to relate differently.
This work helps you both slow down the cycle, understand what each person is bringing to it, and learn practical skills for communication, repair, boundaries and connection.
Rates: 90-100euro/1.5-2hrs
3-Day Relationship Intensive
A focused private process for couples work.
The 3-Day Intensive is designed for couples who need more than occasional sessions and want dedicated time to understand and change the pattern they are caught in.
This may be the right fit if:
- You have been repeating the same conflict for months or years.
- You feel stuck, disconnected or unsure what is possible.
- You want more momentum than weekly, fortnightly or occasional sessions can offer.
- You are facing a decision point in the relationship.
- You need help with resentment, distance, communication breakdown or recurring hurt.
- You want practical tools and clear guidance, not just another conversation about the problem.
Over three days, we slow the pattern down, identify what each of you is doing to keep it alive, and begin building a different way of relating.
The work includes structured conversation, relational skills practice, guided reflection and clear next steps for continuing the work after the intensive.
The intensive is suitable for couples who are willing to look honestly at themselves, not only at their partner.
Fee: 1350euro
For Groups, Classes,Workshops & Retreats
I offer relationship skills classes and workshops for individuals, couples and groups who want practical tools for healthier relationships.
Topics may include:
- Communication that does not collapse into blame
- Managing conflict without losing connection
- Understanding your relationship patterns
- Boundaries without control or withdrawal
- Emotional regulation during difficult conversations
- Repair after hurt or disconnection
Classes and workshops are practical, clear and grounded in real-life relationship challenges.
Contact me to ask about upcoming classes or to discuss a private workshop for your group.
Make life better - let's work together
My work is direct, compassionate and practical.
I help you look honestly at the pattern you are caught in, understand what each person is bringing to it, and learn the skills needed to respond differently.
This is not about sitting in endless conversations that go nowhere. It is about slowing things down enough to see what is really happening, then building new ways to speak, listen, repair, set boundaries and reconnect.
I draw on Relational Life Therapy, relationship education, counselling skills, the Enneagram and years of experience working with individuals, couples and families around difficult relational dynamics.
Ready to begin?
Give me a call to discuss your needs or go ahead and book an appointment to suit your schedule. Choose from a one off intensive weekend or weekly/fortnightly sessions. Meet online or in person. Appointments are easy to set up, reschedule or cancel if you change your mind.
